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FLASH SALE

February 24, 2026

I’m not able to buy dozens of decks to give to reviewers and buy influence. What I can do is offer a chance to get my decks at my cost. And since I’m driven by a desire to have my decks out working in the [read more]

Designs I Like

Altar Cloth or Bandana

February 16, 2026

I recently ordered samples of my kaleidoscope designs as bandanas from Fourthwall– a new Print on Demand partner. They might also make a great altar cloth, if my artwork and the available sizes work for you. As I am still testing this site, I’m not [read more]

Family, Identity

An Update On My Memoir

February 15, 2026

Are you thinking “I didn’t know he’s writing his memoir!“? That’s OK, so was I when a friend asked me for ‘the latest update’. My reply was that there are no immediate plans for one; which is true enough. But the question rattled through my [read more]

LGBTITQQ2S

Bathhouse Raids

February 5, 2026

On This Day Originally shared 10 years ago February 5, 1981, 11 p.m. Squads of undercover (under towel?) ‘peace officers’ raid four gay bathhouses in downtown Toronto. Over 300 people were charged with crimes ranging from ‘running a bawdy house’ to ‘being a found-in a [read more]

Family, Identity

An Update

January 30, 2026

The latest information on our efforts to move (back) to Canada. We’ve received an update from the Canadian government indicating (although not promising) my husband’s application to become a legal Permanent Resident of Canada (with my sponsorship) is looking positive and moving faster than expected. [read more]

Family, Identity

What’s My Gender?

January 27, 2026

An interesting question. To the extent I think about it, I identify as male– although with the understanding that I am very much a GNC: Gender Non-Compliant male. As a sexually-active gay man with a Husband in ‘modern Western society’ I am clearly out of [read more]

LGBTITQQ2S

LGBT History Months

January 25, 2026

June is celebrated in many countries around the world as LGBT Pride Month (or, perhaps a Pride Week or Pride Day that month). Of course there are some locations where another month is selected- whether due to overlapping celebrations or climate considerations. Although June was [read more]

Designs I Like

Looking Good For the Autocracy

January 24, 2026

Sure, the world (or at least democracy in the USA) is about to implode. Whether you’re getting ready to protest, gathering to build community, or escaping this mess (at beach, bar or bearcave) you can look great with made-to-order items featuring genuine Brian, the Digital [read more]

Designs I Like

Bespoke Digital Gryphon Designs

January 21, 2026

My poetry, art & design are licensed to selected Production Partners, as I don’t have the resources nor the space to stock dozens of designs on dozens of colours of dozens of styles of apparel- to say nothing of mugs, totebags, oracle decks, printed books [read more]

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